68 years..we are independent but Indian females are still dealing with their right to make serious life decision. Mainly in case of marriage, they are forced to accept others' decision. causing
OK, so, if you are living in India, this is common to hear or witness all by yourself about a girl who is trying to focus on their carrier, but, her parents would try to force her to get married. This is either because, later it will be a challenging task to find a suitable groom for the girl or, because
the parents thinks there is no one after them to take care of the girl. mainly Indian parents choose to maintain a good impression on their neighbours over their children's' (mainly girls) happiness. You must have heard those awfully famous lines- "LOG KYA KAHENGE?" i.e. what the society people will say?
The fact is Indian society is mainly male dependent one, where women(no matter if they are working or not) are seen to be fully depended on men and it is thought that females are not completed without the male counterpart.
Mainly talking about rural areas, the marriageable age has taken to be 18, and even though the girl is not matured, she finds herself marrying early. This is because either the circumstances their family creates force them to do so or, the the fulfillment of their issues, either its their affection, love or maybe its because they are sexually attacked.
These are the common facts or issues an Indian woman goes through. Now coming to the most private and practical one. Guess it??
Virginity and sex. yep, this is it. Most of the Indian men want to marry a virgin girl. Marrying a girl who has had sex before is something like a sin to them. No matter if the guy is virgin or not, (now sorry here. I'm not talking about all guys OK? ). So, late 25s is considered a long time for the female and 19 years are more preferred than 25 years old female. Even though the guy is in his late 30s, but the society will somehow ignore it because, as mentioned before Indian society is patriarchal society!! All though govt. keeps saying Indian females have full right as well as the males, but men are always given first priority over women causing a dominant culture.
However one should be mentally prepared before getting married or should not give in to the family pressure. Without maturity the relationship ends up by either being separated or divorced.
In urban areas, the corresponding figure is much less because of education investment, more developed culture and opinions, and male dependency is much less compared to rural areas. First, people have to change their backdated thoughts about female, then there will be hardly any change in this disgusting early marriage system.
see what recent census reveals!!!!!!!!!!
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